爱情社会学讲义_AA09L01.docxVIP

爱情的偏差行为与犯罪※因版权缘故，此开放式课程讲义经过页码重新编码及内容删减，与上课影片所讲述的页码和内容不尽相同，恳请了解。偏差行为与犯罪偏差行为－偏离社会规范，却还不至于触犯法律的行为预设有一个明确的社会规范，通常指的是社会的主流道德观和价值观犯罪－违反社会既定的法律正常与异常次数多寡公序良俗专业判断说话者自己的偏好偏差行为的社会文化界定社会文化界定的标准与偏离标准数目性别年龄族群当事人之间原有的关系当事人的交友或婚姻状况家庭社会阶级教育职业先来后到爱情与偏差行为以爱情为名作出的偏差行为爱情的黑暗面(the dark side of love)以爱为名的偏差行为还算是爱吗？爱情偏差行为的样态性骚扰与性侵害法令与现实校内与校外〈性别平等教育法〉〈性骚扰防治法〉〈性别平等工作法〉不受欢迎的追求行为尾随跟踪 (stalking)病态迷恋 (fatal attraction)手机狂ㄎㄡ电子邮件狂寄被拒绝的反应忌妒生恨沟通不良误解污蔑公布私密信息情书亲密照片私密信息性暴力肢体言语性行为分手时胁迫殉情殉情与他杀自杀杀人疯狂偏执内缩内疚停滞在过去的一段感情爱情中的冲突根据Roberts (2006: 328-329)的整理领域Domain定义Definition范例行为指针Example Behavioral Indicators身体攻击行动Physically aggressive acts使用武力或约束的行为Behavior that use physical force or restraint向伴侣丢东西Throw something at partner推、抓或推挤Push, grab, or shove甩耳光Slap踢Kick咬或用拳打Bite or hit with a fist打或是用东西打Hit or try to hit with something狠狠打Beat up掐脖子Choke用刀或枪威胁Threaten with a knife or gun用刀用枪Use a knife or fire a gun敌意情感Hostile affect对于互动伴侣的主观体验敌意感情的行为表现Behavioral expression (through both verbal and nonverbal channels) of a subjectively experienced feeling of antagonism toward the interactional partner鄙视Contempt讨厌Disgust责骂Scorn挑衅Belligerence生气Anger敌意Hostility藐视Disdain愤恨Hate批判行为Critical behavior沟通拒绝、不赞成或是贬抑他人Behaviors that communicate rejection, disapproval, or devaluation of the other羞辱Insult当众出糗Put down批评Citicize拒绝行动Rejecting act不赞成Disapprove贬抑伴侣Devaluation of partner嘲弄Ridicule攻击Attack控诉Accuse归咎Blame嘲笑Mock轻视Belittle品格谋杀Character assassination防卫行为Defensive behavior防卫、借口或合理化自己的行为Behavior that defend, excuse, or rationalized one’s own behavior瞥清责任Deny responsibility借口Excuse否认控诉Deny accusation是的，但是Yes, but…为自己辩护Defend self合理化Rationalize说法Justification退缩行为Withdrawing behavior显示出缺乏兴趣或不投入的行为Behavior hat indicate a lack of interest or involvement退缩Withdrawal拒绝提供消息Stonewall放弃Give up离开现场Leave the field无回应No response停止话题Off-topic转移话题Change topic规避Evasion脱离Disengage找不到Not tracking不参与Uninvolved忽略Ignore控制行为Controlling behavior不顾他人自主性或是宣称、权力、约束力或优越性Behavior that disregard the other’s autonomy or assert power, constraint, or superiorit