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你一直未能达成愿望的八个原因 8 Reasons You Never Get What You Want You’re satisfied with mediocrity. 满足于平庸 We all receive messages from many sources: parents, friends, churches, movies, TV shows, the news… messages that tell us we should be nice, well-behaved consumers who are satisfied with mediocrity and don’t try to stray too far from it. But this doesn’t mean that YOU have to be satisfied with mediocrity. 我们受到来自多方面的信息：父母、朋友、教堂、电影、电视节目、新闻....这些信息都表示我们应该做得很好，满足于平庸，行为端正的我们不应该偏离正轨。但是这并不表示你必须得满足于平庸。 You say “I can’t.” 你觉得“不行” These two words, and their cousins “I have to,” should be eliminated from all languages everywhere. These are loser words. Victim words. As soon as you think or say “I can’t,” before you’ve even gotten to “because,” you’ve already given all of your power away, and the more words you put after “because,” the faster your power is fleeing from you. 这两个字，以及它的近义词“必须”就应该从全世界的语言文字中消亡。那是属于失败者的词汇。在你思考“为什么”之前，只要你想要打退堂鼓或是说出了“我不行”的话，在斗志上你就已经输了，“因为”之后的词语太多，你的斗志失去的就越快。 Replace “I can’t” with “I could if I wanted to.” Replace “I have to” with “I am doing this because…” 想说“我不行”的时候就对自己说“只要我想，我就一定可以”。想说“我必须要这样..”的时候就对自己说“我这样做是因为....”。 You complain about never getting what you want. 你总是在抱怨你从未得到过你想要的 Every time we want something, we are also keenly aware of its absence. As Abraham says in this short video, “Every subject is really two subjects.” There is the problem, which is the lack of what you want. For instance, the lack of money — and there is the solution, which is what you want — more money. 每次我们想要某件东西的时候，我们很清楚地知道我们没有得到。就如亚伯拉罕的微视频的提到的那样，“每件事物都有两面。”都会有你想要但又得不到的这种问题出现。比如说，缺钱-----解决的办法就是，得到你想要的---赚到更多的钱。 Instead of joining in your friends’ conversations about being poor, lonely, fat or sick, excuse yourself and go daydream for five minutes. What would it be like to be rich? What kind of car would you drive? What kind of house would you live in? What would you do together? What would you talk about? If you had a perfect body, what would you wear? How would other people respon