0406 Be honest with yourself演讲稿分析和总结.docxVIP

When the topic of honesty comes up, the general tendency is to think about our relationship with others. We understand the need to be honest with people. 一般来说，提到诚实，我们就会想到人与人之间的关系。我们都知道，诚实很重要。 If you cannot trust your neighbor to say the truth, and your neighbor cant trust you to say the truth, what sort of social life will that produce? 如果你不相信你的邻居会说真话，你的邻居也不相信你会说真话，你的邻里关系会是怎么样的？ If parents dont trust children, and children dont trust parents, what sort of family life will result? 如果父母不信任孩子，孩子不信任父母，这家人的家庭生活会是什么样的？ It is understandable then why we have to be honest with each other. Honesty with yourself beyond honesty with others. 所以说，我们要对彼此坦诚。而你对自己也要坦诚，这比对他人坦诚更重要。 However, have you ever considered that your first responsibility is to be honest with yourself? If you cannot be honest with yourself, how can you be honest with others? 然而，你有没有考虑过，你最重要的责任，是要对自己诚实？如果无法对自己坦诚，你又如 何做到对他人坦诚？ If you cant confront the reality of your own life, how will you confront the realities of the lives of others? If you cannot face the truth about yourself, how can you tell the truth to others? 如果你无法面对你生活中的种种真相，你又如何做到面对他人的生活真相？如果你自己无法面对真相，你又如何对他人说出实话？ The best you can be will be a hypocrite who canremove the speck of dust in the eyes of others without regards for the log of wood in his own eyes. Honesty with yourself is a way of life you have to master, if you want to become the person you want to be. There are four areas where you need to be honest with yourself, if you are to make progress in life. 如果你做不到，那么，你最多也只能变成一个伪君子，容不得别人半点虚伪，却对自己的虚伪视而不见。如果你想变成自己梦想成为的人，那么你就要对自己诚实，这是一种生活方式， 你必须掌握它。如果你想进步，那么你要在以下四个方面对自己坦诚。 Be honest about your strengths. The first step to improvement and progress in life is critical self-assessment. If youre not honest about what you can do and cant do, you will never improve. Be honest enough to admit what your strengths are. 坦诚面对自己的优点。要想在人生中有所进取，第一步就是要客观地评价自己。自己做得到什么，做不到什么，要如实面对，否则你就永远不会进步。你要坦然承认自己的优点到底有多少。 There are two errors you need to avoid. First is to underst