大学生知觉的父亲形象-屏东大学机构典藏nptuir.pdfVIP

屏東師院學報第二十二期 頁 民國九十四年 ，台灣屏東 291-330 ( ) 大學生知覺的父親形象 邱 珍 琬* (投稿日期：民國 93 年 6 月 7 日投稿，接受日期：93 年 12 月 3 日) 摘 要 我們常常聽見人們談母親，卻極少聽見父親在話題中出現，父親 在孩子眼中到底是什麼模樣？傳統的父親形象經過這些年社會的變 動，有沒有受到影響或改變？有跡可循嗎？大學生心目中的「父親」 又是怎樣一種面貌？父親是怎樣表現他的關愛與溫柔的？孩子是怎樣 看到父親的轉變？本研究以焦點團體訪談與個別訪談方式對就讀於大 學階段學生進行有關父親形象的相關議題討論與了解，發現學生心目 中的父親隨著孩子年歲增長有不同互動方式與調適，父親形象是「兩 性兼具」最佳，而親子之間的關係也有愈漸親密的趨勢，遑論是父親 本身或是孩子自身採取主動改變的動作，都讓傳統的父子關係有了渴 望的發展；父子與父女間的互動方式有一些差異，可能是父子之間同 性親密的禁忌。父親的不善表現關切，可能是疏於訓練、性別角色的 限制、或是工作與親職分配的結果，父親的兩難在於親密需求與維持 既有男性形象的平衡。 關鍵字：父親形象、大學生、父親角色 *邱珍琬：國立屏東師範學院教育心理與輔導學系助理教授 2 92 屏東師院學報 第二十二期 Father Image — How College Students Perceive Their Fathers? Jane Chiu* Abstract How children perceive their fathers? Has traditional father image ever changed over these years amid societal transitions? How college students perceive their own fathers? This study is an attempt to explore college students’ perspective of their fathers via focus-group discussions and individual interviews. The results showed that father image had been changed from rigid and conventional to resilient and caring one over chronological years. The ideal father is androgyny. The father-child relationship became more satisfactory and intimate if any action was initiated by either party. The positive impact also manifested in the whole family relations. The relationships between father-son and father-daughter were a little different probably due to same-sex intimacy taboo. The dilemma to be solved was to balance the intimacy need and male-stereotype maintenance of the father. Key words: Father image, College students, Father role *Jane Chiu：Assistant professor, Dept of Educational Psychology Counseling, National Ping-tung Teachers College.