基于问题和需求的新婚家庭辅导——来自家庭系统理论的视角.pdfVIP

2017年4月 人口与社会 Apr． ,2017 第33卷　 第2期 Population and Society Vol．33　 No．2 社会管理 基于问题和需求的新婚家庭辅导 ———来自家庭系统理论的视角 郝彩虹 (中华女子学院 社会工作学院,北京 100101) [摘要]新婚期既是家庭形成和巩固的关键时期,也是家庭问题和矛盾频发的阶段,开展新婚家庭辅导具有 重要意义。 从系统视角理解家庭,发现新婚家庭的问题主要表现为婚姻角色适应不良、亲属关系处理不当、家务 和家庭决策分工不清、财务管理权利不明等,相应的家庭需求有正向积极的夫妻关系、和谐友好的亲属关系、明 确清晰的家庭规范以及实现以上三点的能力。 针对这些问题和需求,系统视角下的新婚家庭辅导提出通过直接 辅导和沟通技巧的传授,协助新婚夫妇处理好夫妻关系、亲属关系,引导建立适切有弹性的家庭规范和家庭原 则,通过平等民主的协商制定家庭计划,并在此过程中帮助新婚家庭构筑符合夫妻双方期待的家庭模式。 [关键词]家庭系统理论;新婚家庭;角色适应;亲属关系;婚姻辅导;家庭问题 [中图分类号]C913.13　 　 　 [文献标识码]A　 　 　 [文章编号]2095-7963(2017)02-0023-07 DOI:10.14132/ j.2095-7963.2017.02.003 Abstract:Newlymarriedperiodisnotonlythekey stageofformationandconsolidationof afamily, but also the stage which is full of familial problems and conflicts. To view family from the perspective of family system theory, it isfound that the main problems of a new family are marriage role maladjust- ment, kinshipmishandling, houseworkanddecision-makingproblemsandindistincthouseholdfinan- cial management. Correspondingly, the needsof the new family arepositive andharmoniousfamily re- lationships, clear and explicit family rules, and the ability to achieve these goals. In order to solve these problems, new family counseling from family system perspective provides both direct counseling and communicative skill training, and focuses on assisting new couples to deal with the marriage rela- tionship andotherfamily relationshipsproperly, andguidesnew couplesto establish appropriatefamily rules and principles, and helps couples make family planning in equal and democratic ways, and guides the new family to form a family pattern which is expected by each other. Key words:family system theory; newly married family; role adaptation; kinship; marriage counse- 　 　 [收稿日期]2016-10-1