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PAGE30 / NUMPAGES30 E- 2016-8-25  HYPERLINK /new/p807909/ 送给20多岁的姑娘们：这十件事你一定要记住 If there is one thing I know from experience, for most people, their roaring twenties are a time of exploration, confusion, and utter bafflement. I was recently asked what I would go back and tell my younger self. Here are a few things that came to mind.如果说我从过往的经历中明白了某件事，那就是对多数人来说，她们风华正茂的二十岁是一段充满探索、困惑和极度迷茫的岁月。最近，有人问起我有什么道理是我希望告诉年轻时的自己的。以下就是我能想到的一些忠告。 1. Bad Boys are best saved for movies.1. “坏男孩”还是让他们留在电影里吧。 Bad boys are not exciting, they are chaotic, unreliable, unfocused and 99% of the time, they will cheat on you and don’t have a proper job. Just because they wear a cute outfit, flip off the establishment does not mean you should trust your heart or body with them.坏男孩并没有什么让人兴奋的地方，他们混乱不堪，不可信赖，无法专注，他们会背叛你，更连个合适的工作都没有。仅仅因为他们衣着光鲜、反叛世俗，并不代表你可以把心或者身体放心交给他们。 2. Youll figure this out.2. 有些道理，你总会明白。 Life is a series of steps and lessons. You only learn by doing, and sometimes, that means doing things you dont want to do, dont know how to do, shouldnt do and dont do well. Instead of worrying about what is not happening, pay attention to your growth and take it one step at a time.人生需要一步一脚印，慢慢吸取教训。你只有去做了，才能学到东西。有时，这意味着做你不愿意做的事、不会做的事、不该做的事以及不擅长的事。与其担心你没有做到哪些，不如专注于你的成长，循序渐进。 3. No one will ever live up to a fantasy.3. 没有人能满足你的幻想。 We, as humans, are flawed creatures. The point is not to find someone who is your perfect match but instead someone who shares your values, loves you, respects you, makes you smile, can live with your annoying habits, challenges you to be your best self and appreciates that you do the same for them.我们生而为人，难免有所缺陷。关键并不是找到你的完美伴侣，而是找到那个ta??那个与你共享价值观、爱你敬你、让你开心、能忍受你烦人的小习惯、挑战你去做最好的自己、并能对你的同等付出心存感激的人。 4. Never chase anyone. Ever.4. 不要追求别人。绝对不要。 People who want to be in your life will show up. Those who deserve to be in it will act right while there. Pretty simple.那些想要出现在你人生中的人终会出现。值得出现在你人生中的人会在合适的时候做出正确的行动。就是这么简单。 5. Save a little money every week.5. 每周都存点钱。 There wil