大学里要做的16件事.doc

大学里要做的16件事四年大学生涯 是大学生从学生到成人的转型期。从大一开始积累各种经验自我心态的调整、处事能力的提升到与人相处的技巧。在生活中既要当好演员也要当好观众在大学中,既要当好学生,也要当好初涉社会的预备人才。?? Get?out?of?the?library.?You?can?have?a?degree?and?a?huge?GPA?and?not?be?ready?for?the?workplace.?A?student?should?plan?that?college?is?four?years?of?experience?rather?than?120?credits.?? 　　第一,走出图书馆。就算有了学位和很高的GPA,?你也不见得就为工作做好了准备。作为一名学生,应该把大学生涯看作是四年人生经验而非只是一堆学分来好好计划。?? 　　Start?a?business?in?your?dorm?room.?It’s?cheap,?Google?and?Yahoo?are?dying?to?buy?your?website,?and?it’s?better?than?washing?dishes?in?the?cafeteria.?? 　　第二,从宿舍开始做生意。这很便宜,谷歌、雅虎都会争先恐后地收购你的网站,这比在大学食堂里洗盘子好多了。?? 　　Get?involved?on?campus.?When?it?comes?to?career?success,?emotional?intelligence—social?skills?to?read?and?lead?others—gets you farther than knowledge or job competence. 　　第三,积极参加校园活动。论及事业成功,情商——具有读懂并领导别人的社交技能——比起知识或工作能力,对你更有帮助。?? Play?a?sport.?People?who?play?sports?earn?more?money?than?couch?potatoes,?and?women?executives?who?played?sports?attribute?much?of?their?career?success?to?their?athletic?experience.?You?don’t?need?to?be?great?at?sports,?you?just?need?to?be?part?of?a?team.?? 　　第四,参加体育运动。玩运动的人要比整天看电视的人收入高。参加过体育运动的女性行政人员事业成功的原因很大程度上要归功于其运动经历。你无需在运动上表现出色,而只需参与其中。?? Separate?your?expectations?from?those?of?your?parents.?Otherwise?you?wake?up?and?realize?you’re?not?living?your?own?life.?? 　　第五,别遵循父母的期待生活。否则你醒来后会发现你过的不是属于自己的生活。?? Try?new?things?that?you’re?not?good?at.?Ditch?the?superstar?mentality?that?if?you?don’t?reach?the?top,?become?president,?get?an?A+,?or?get?promoted?to?editor-in-chief,?then?the?efforts?were?worthless.?It’s?important?to?learn?to?enjoy?things?without?getting?recognition.?? 　　第六,尝试一些你并不擅长的新事物。抛弃那些名缰利锁:觉得如果不能成为第一名,当不了学生会主席,拿不了A+的优异成绩,或晋升到总编的位置,那么一切努力都是无意义的。重要的是学着去享受那些无需他人赞赏肯定的事情。??  Define?success?for?yourself.?Society?defines?success?very?narrowly.?Rather?than?defining?success?as?financial?gain?or?accolades,?define?it?in?terms?of?individual?interests?and?personal?happiness.?? 　　第七,自己定义成功。社会对成功的定义很狭隘。与其把成功定义为经济上的收获或嘉奖,不如将其定义为个人兴趣和快乐所在。