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我们能摆脱爱情吗

题?：Canwechoosetofalloutoflove?作者:Dessa

Hello,mynameisDessa,andImamemberofahip-hopcollectivecalledDoomtree.Imtheoneinthetanktop.

?家好，我叫黛莎，是?个名为Doomtree的嘻哈团体的成员。我是穿背?的那个。

AndImakemylivingasaperforming,touringrapperandsinger.Whenweperformasacollective,thisiswhatourshowslooklike.Imtheoneintheboots.Theresalotofjumping.Theresalotofsweating.Itsloud.Itsveryhigh-energy.Sometimesthereareunintentionalbodychecksonstage.Sometimestherearecompletelyintentionalbodychecksonstage.Itskindofahybridbetweenanintramuralhockeygameandaconcert.

以巡演表演为?——是?位独?歌?，也是说唱歌?。我们的集体表演就是这样?。我是其中??着靴?的。表演中有很多地?要跳跃和出汗；是?常?能量的消耗和喧闹。偶尔在舞台上?体会互相阻挡。又有时候会有?体的故意互相碰撞。有点像校内?乐会和曲棍球?赛的混合。

However,whenIperformmyownmusicasasoloartist,Itendtogravitatetowardsmoremelancholysounds.Afewyearsago,Igavemymomtheroughmixesofanew

album,andshesaid,Baby,itsbeautiful,butwhyisitalwayssosad?

然?当我作为?个独唱的艺术家，更倾向于呈现忧郁的声?。?年前，我给母亲?张混?的新专辑，她说，“宝贝，歌很美，但为什么总是那么忧伤？”

Youalwaysmakemusictobleedoutto.AndIthought,Whoareyouhangingoutwiththatyouknowthatphrase?

“你总是创作渗出悲凉的?乐。”我想，“你是和谁?起学会?到这个词组？”

unintentional

adj.??的，?意识的

h

hybrid

n.混合物；杂种

i

intramural

adj.校内的；内部的

melancholy

n.忧郁

Butoverthecourseofmycareer,IvewrittensomanysadlovesongsthatIgotmessageslikethisfromfans:Releasenewmusicorabook.Ineedhelpwithmybreakup.

在我的职业?涯中，写了?常多忧伤的爱情歌曲，以致常常收到这样的信息：“尽快出新?乐或书籍，帮助我渡过分?期。”

Andafterperformingandrecordingandtouringthosesongsforalongtime,Ifoundmyselfinapositioninwhichmyprofessionalnichewasessentiallyromanticdevastation.WhatIhadntbeenpublicabout,however,wasthefactthatmostofthesesongshadbeenwrittenaboutthesameguy.Andfortwoyears,wetriedtosortourselvesout,andthenforfiveandon