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如何维持?段?久的友情

题?：whatmakesafriendshiplast?作者:MonaChalabi

Ivemovedabout20timesinmylife.AndeachtimethatImovetoanewneighborhood,anewcity,anewcountry,itseemstogetharderandhardertosustainthefriendshipsIleftbehind.Butrightnow,sustainingthosefriendshipsseemsespeciallyimportantandespeciallydifficult.SoImwonderingwhatismanageable?HowcanIkeepthosefriendshipsafloatwithoutgettingoverwhelmed?

在我??中，我搬了?概20次家?每当我搬进?个新的邻?新的城市，新的国家我发现维持?段友谊，越来越难可是现在维持那些所谓的友谊似乎特别重要也很困难所以我在想，有什么可以做的我该如何维持友情?又不会过度的刻意

Tofindout,Iturnedtomytwomosttrustedsources:dataandmymum.Now,sinceshehatesbeingoncamera,thispuppetisgoingtobeasgoodasitgets.Butbeforesheweighsin,IwantedtolookatthestudiesonhowfriendshipsfallapartinthehopesthatImightbeabletoavoidsomeofthosepitfalls.

为了?探究竟我找到了两个我最信任的资源：数据和我的妈妈由于我妈不喜欢在镜头前就把这个玩偶当作事她吧可是提起她之前我想看看研究显?友情事如何破裂的以防我以后会陷?这些困境中

Accordingtoonestudy,friendshipsoftendissolvebecauseofalackofopportunitytomeet,hangoutandconnect.Whichmayexplainwhy,afterayearofisolation,someofmyfriendshipsfeelliketheyrehangingonbyathread.Thesameresearchermadeheadlineswiththefindingthatwelosehalfofourfriendshipseverysevenyears.

?项研究显??多数的友谊会解体是因为缺少机会去见?，聚会与联系这就可以解释为什么?年间的独来独往有些友谊就像是挂在悬崖边?样同样的研究也整理出了头条每隔七年我们会失去?半的友谊

neighborhood

n.地区；与某地区临近的地区

manageable

adj.易处理的

isola

isolation

n.隔离；与世隔绝

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headline

n.?字标题

Now,beforeyoustartdoomscrollingthroughyourcontactlist,youshouldknowthatsnotquiteassevereasitsounds.Overthosesevenyears,thesizeofourfriendshipgroupactuallystaysprettystable.Soifyouhave20or30goodfriendsnow,sevenyearslater,youstillprobablyhave20or30goodfriends.Thecatch,though,isthat52percentofthosefaceswillbedifferent.Oversevenyears,