晨读材料2分析和总结.docx

PainandGrowth

痛苦与成长

单词与词组 Wordsandphrases

profoundly [prufaundli] adv.深深地ordinary [?:dinri,-neri-] a.平凡的frustration [fr?strei? n] n.挫败accomplishment [k?mpli?mnt, k?m-] n.成就

anguish

[??ɡwi?]

n.痛苦

crucial

[kru:? l]

a.至关紧要的

inclination

[,inklinei?

n] n.倾向

inevitable

[inevitbl]

a.必然的

disservice

[,diss:vis]

n.伤害

Lookingback︵overmylife,itseemstomethat▼Ihavelearnedthemost▼when︵Ifeltthegreatestpain.Mymothersdeath,for︵example,madememoreprofoundlyaware︵ofthebeautyinnature.Mycapacityforfindingjoyinthemostordinaryevents(watching︵aflower︵open,↗leavesturningred,↗abirdtaking︵abath↘)seemstodeepeneachtimeIlivethroughgreatsorrow.Deathmakeslifemoreprecious;↗frustrationmakessuccessmorefulfilling;↗failuremakesthenext︵accomplishmentmoremeaningful.

In︵ordertofeeldeeply▼it︵isnecessarytofeel︵everything.It

︵is︵impossibletochoose.Youcantreallyknow▼howgreat▼isyour

sense︵ofjoyat︵ababysbirth▼oryoursatisfaction︵atsucceeding

︵at︵ahardjob▼unlessyouare︵alsodeeplyaware︵oftheanguish

︵ofseparation▼↗andthepain︵offailure.↘Itsthroughthecapacitytofeel▼thatwediscover︵ourselves︵andothers▼andexplorethepotentialfor︵afull,↗significantlife.

This︵is︵an︵especiallycrucialissueforparents.Ournatural︵inclination︵istotrytoprotectchildrenfrompain.Wehavethemistakennotionthat▼if︵achild︵ishappy▼wearedoing︵agoodjob;if︵achild︵issad▼wearefailingasparents.Butgivingchildrenthemessagethat▼happyisgood▼↗andsad︵isterrible▼↘decreasestheircapacitytoexplorethefullrange︵ofhuman︵experiences.

Childrenneedtounderstandthat▼suffering,↗frustration↗andfailure↘arenot︵onlyinevitable▼buthelpful.Theparentwhotook

︵asimplepuzzle︵awayfrom︵afour-year︵-oldchild▼hasdreadfulfeeling▼becausehegetstooupset︵andfrustrated▼whenhecantget

︵itright︵immediately