优尼全能英语：提升自信秘籍你不知道自己有多棒.doc

纯英式教学模式：纯英式资深外教，纯英式国际领先教材，纯英式学习环境！ 优尼全能英语: 提升自信秘籍-你不知道自己有多棒！ 　　Confidence. Its that intangible thing which makes the difference between feeling scared and feeling powerful. When you feel confident, you are unstoppable and it seems like your path is laid out clearly in front of you. When you lack confidence, however, you can feel afraid, and sometimes all you can see ahead is the possibility of failure. 　　自信。自信是一种无形的东西，一个人的自信特质能看出一个人与别人大不一样，其差异会达到可怕的程度而且感觉到这个人身上的那种力量感。在你感到自己非常自信的时候，自己有一种无人能够阻挡的感觉，貌似自己走在面前这条畅通无阻的光明大道上。但在你感到自己非常缺乏自信的时候，你自己会感觉好怕，而且自己抬头向前看时，有时候感觉只能看到失败。 　　At some stage in our lives almost all of us will need to conquer our lack of confidence. (Ive certainly been there!) The question is, how do you do it? 　　在我们生活中的某些阶段几乎每个人都遇到过需要自己克服缺乏自信的这一困难。(我本可以做到!)问题在于你是如何做到的? 　　Oftentimes coaching and transformation can bring about an increased level of confidence. (One of the many great by-products of the process.) While this does not happen overnight and there is no magic pill, the following are some strategies I have found that work wonders when working with clients. 　　通常做教练当老师能增加自信。(自信就是在锻炼的过程中得以增强的。)但这不是一夜之间的蜕变，而且没有奇效药片，下列是在与客户合作时发现的一些奇迹性的战略方法。 　　1.Get out of your comfort zone. 　　走出你的舒适区。 　　When you do the things that you think you cant, your comfort zone will continue to expand. Even doing something seemingly small every day will lead you to something bigger. You will grow and will begin to feel unstoppable. Just take that first step. 　　在你认为自己无法做到这些事情的时候，你的舒适区会继续扩展。即使每天做一些小事情貌似也会逐渐做一些大事情。你会成长并会开始感觉自己势不可挡。关键在于要迈出这第一步。 　　2.Be yourself -- unapologetically. 　　做自己—无需有歉意。 　　Remember, you cant control others or what they think. Wayne Dyer believes that if you ask 30 people their opinions of you, you are likely to find you have 30 different reputations. Strive to observe and witness others opinions, rather than being attached to them. Find a personal style that feels great to you. Dress well, in the clothing you feel is very you. Live your life the way you feel is r