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成功的钥匙15（The key to success 15） 强化自律 强化自律 Enforce Self discipline 前面几章我们所强调的, 是控制思想的重要性, 对思想的 控制, 是你的个人进取心、积极心态和热忱控制的关键因素, 而自律则是结合所有这些努力的过程. Earlier chapters have placed Heavy emhasis on the importance of taking control of your mind. This control is pivotal to your personal Initiative, Positive mental attituded, and controlled enthusiasm. Self discipline is the process that ties all these efforts together for you. 一个人能达到自律要求后, 在其他原则方面必然也会有 所进步.自律要求自我认识以及对自己能力的正确评估.同 样的, 如果缺乏自律功夫, 其他原理也无法真正付诸行动.自 律可说是一条管道, 而你为了达到成功目标, 所必须表现出来 的所有个人力量, 都会流经这个管道. It isnt possible to achieve self - discipline without making some progress on Theose other Principles; self discipline requries self - Knowledge and an accurate Assesssment of your current abilities. Likewise, the other principles cant really be put into Action Without self - Disciples cant really be put into Action Without self - discipline. It is the channel through which all your personal Power for Success must Flow. 把你的心智想像成是一座贮存你潜在力量的贮存库, 你现在应学习从库中释放适当数量的力量, 并将它导引到正确方向, 这就是自律的本质. Think of your mind as a reserveoir in which you have been storing up potential Power. You will now Learn to release that Power in precise quantities and specific directions. This is the essence of Self - discipline. 控制你的情绪 Controlling Your Emotions 大多数的人都是先行动再思考行动的后果, 自律则要求相反的程序: 你将学习 谋定而后动. Most people Act first and think about the consequesnces later. Self discipline will Reverse that process. You will learn to think before you act. 学习这种程序的主要方法, 就是控制你的情绪.我们再 来回顾一下14种主要的情绪: The primary means to this ECD is your control of your Emotions. For Review, The Fourteen major Emotions are repeated below. 积极情绪 Positive Emotions 消极情绪 Negative Emotions 1.爱 Love 2.性 Sex 3.希望 Hope 4.信心 Faith 5.热忱 enthusiasm 6.忠诚 loyalty 7.欲望 Desire 1.恐惧 fear 2.嫉妒 Jealousy 3.仇恨 hatred 4.报复 Revenge 5.贪婪 Greed 6.愤怒 Anger 7.迷信 Superstition 所有这些情绪都是一种心理状态, 所以也是你能掌控的 对象.你可以想像如果不能控制那些消极情绪, 会造成多么 大的危险.同样的, 如果你不能有意识地控制那些积极情绪 的话, 它们也会造成破坏性的结果. 所有这些情绪都是思想状态，因此受制于你的控制。你可以马上看到消极情绪如果不被掌握会有多