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婚姻恐惧症的特征（Characteristics of marital phobia） Characteristics of marital phobia One, worry, marriage is the tomb of love. Reason for fear: everyone says, marriage is the tomb of love, even if love is better, enter marriage, there is no passion and sweet, only endless trivial and annoyance. If you dont marry, you dont have so much trouble, you can enjoy life and enjoy the love...... Weapon: out of fear marriage, first marriage to get rid of the illusion of life, dont have high expectations and hope everything is good, do not think that love, really the pink of perfection, the honeymoon is sweeter than honey, should clearly recognize that the birth of a new family, it means that the burden of aggravating, means both to try to do family responsibility, responsibility of their husband and wife. Notice that the sweetness of the honeymoon is that you are willing to suffer for your love and win. It is a mutual dedication and a common building. Lovers are required before marriage to love, for the future of the small family willing to endure hardship, involved in the determination to forgive and understand the shortcomings of lovers. Two, arranged marriage I dont know enough about my future husband Reason for fear: he and I are relatives introduced, due to the work of the two city, we met the first half only met three times, the family says our age is not small, we hurried in the 51. But I dont know him, his habits, his circle of friends, even he is not specific, originally had not talked about a girlfriend I do not know, really helpless ah, every time I think of the big head, really do not want to end this marriage...... Weapon: both men and women need to constantly strengthen mutual understanding, deepen feelings, this is the most important psychological preparation before marriage. If the preparation is inadequate, other preparations will not guarantee the well-being of married life, even if everything is prepared before the marriage, it is difficult to make up for the psyc