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如何社交（How to socialize） Social strategy 1, looking for people with similar habits. Everyone has his own personality, hobbies, and ways of life People with similar habits are still everywhere. The problem is how you look for it and find it. First, pay attention to each other The characteristics of age, occupation, social background and life view, if both sides notice the similarity, they tend to be common Language and empathy. 2, grasp their own special sense of propriety. If a persons specialty is more prominent, he can win the appreciation of others, It is natural to be happy to be near you, but if it is perfect, it gives a high degree Do not climb the feeling, if occasionally exposed some personal shortcomings, such but will attract you. 3, pay attention to instrument and temperament. A warm and generous person is certainly more attractive than an indifferent introvert. But no. A meeting is not nonsense, this will give people a sense of poise. The golden rule in social life (1) the attitude of a friend should always be modest and should always talk and talk with others with a smile. (2) always keep a friendly relationship with people around you and look for opportunities to do something for others, For example, your neighbor is ill and you can think of a bowl of delicious soup for him. Others will be very memorable to you. (3) when someone introduces you to a friend, you should concentrate on remembering their names. At a later date In the middle, you can call him by name at the first sight, and you will find the person very enthusiastic and intent. (4) learn to tolerate, overcome self willed, try to understand others, and put yourself in the others shoes. Doing this will make friends feel friendly, trustworthy and safe. Communicative Expressions Communication is an art, to pay attention to etiquette, different occasions should pay attention to polite expressions. The first meeting should be said. To visit others should say: visit. Waiting for others should say: lo