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5 WAYS to help you to solve the RELATIONSHIP among your ROOMMATES 试1301 第七组 You will most likely have a least one time in your college career where your roommate will do something that either frustrates or upsets you, maybe even consistently. If you bring it up the first time it bothers you in an appropriate manner, the chances of the issue being resolved automatically increase a bunch! With that, here’s my take on how to deal with a roommate confrontation. First, ask nicely Don’t take forever to discuss your concerns Now, have a sit down Offer up a solution and say thank you Highlight their strengths First, ask nicely If you go at them like you’re going to rip their head off, it’s probably going to end badly. The first time you catch something that is bothersome, simply ask them to do it differently. Example – “Hey, would you please turn down the computer a little bit? ” rather than turn down the computer, shit! Don’t take forever about your concerns Don’t wait an entire semester to approach them with whatever is bothering you! It will be nonsense to start up a new semester saying “So, last semester it drove me nuts when you never took out the trash…let’s work on that this semester.” They will undoubtedly ask you why you didn’t say something earlier. Now, have a sit down A calm one, at that. Just be like “Hey, can I talk to you about something really quick! It’s not a big deal, I just wanted to ask a favor of you!” Lay out exactly what you’re having a problem with and be clear in why it troubles you. Offer up a solution and say thank you Don’t have a sit down without having a way to resolve the issue. If for some reason you can’t think of one, ask them for their thoughts or if there’s something you can do to help as well. And say thank you in regards to them being willing to sit down and hear you out! Thank you is always make a big difference in the long run! Highlight their strengths After you talk about what is upsetti