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我希望20多岁的自己曾经知道的13件事 这是一封40岁女人写给20岁自己的信，题为“我希望20多岁的自己曾经知道的13件事”。让我们看看一个40岁女人有哪些生活智慧可供年轻的姑娘们分享和学习的吧！ Dear Twentysomething-year-old Me, 亲爱的20多岁的我： 1. When that man you have a crush on asks, Are you a good girl or a bad girl? laugh in his face, spin on your heel and ignore his calls. 当那个你喜欢的男孩问“你是个好女孩还是个坏女孩”时，冲他笑笑，转身走开，忽略他打给你的电话。 2. Wear sunscreen. At least around your eyes and above your currently pert upper lips cupids bow. 要擦防晒霜。至少在眼睛周围，和你现在完美唇形的上唇边缘要擦。 3. Just because you share blood with people doesnt mean you have to give them the time of day if they are hell-bent on making you feel small, misunderstood and wrong. Youve given them enough chances. Cut the cord. 就算是你的血脉至亲，也别允许他们肆意藐视你、误解你、无端指责你。你已经给了他们很多机会了。请摆脱他们的束缚。 4. Sign up for small automatic savings deposits that kick in every time you get paid. Youll be making down payments on your own future freedom. 办理小额的储蓄存款通存业务，每次你发工资就可以存些钱。你在为将来会获得的自由预知账单。 5. Rejection is not a sign that you should stop doing what you love. It is married to doing what you love. It should not be kneecapping you. Embrace it. 被拒绝不意味着你应该放弃那些爱好，追求自己的爱好必然会遇到挫折，别让挫折阻止你，拥抱挫折。 6. If you have a problem with a valued friend, bite the bullet and talk about it. Dont just disappear on her or him. 如果你与某个重要的朋友不和，放下面子，和他（她）谈谈。不要仅仅从他（她）眼前消失。 7. Tell the truth. People really do sense it when you lie to them, and it makes them distrust you or themselves. Its the darndest thing. 说实话。别人真的可以感觉到你在说谎，这会让他人对你或他们自己产生不信任感。说实话是一件超赞的事情。 8. You were raised to think that you should be married well before 30 -- and that everything else you fill your life with adds up to failure if you remain single. Thats a giant bucket of steaming dookie. Be choosy. The happiness youre chasing is actually suffusing your life right now. You will look back on this time very wistfully when youve got spit-up in your hair and a husband who expects hot meals, a sparkling-clean house and you to resemble the cutie he married. 你的成长环境使你觉得你应该早在30岁之前成婚——如果你30岁还单身