TED演讲：如何平衡生活与工作.docVIP

TED演讲：如何平衡生活与工作 What I thought I would do is I would start with a simple request. Id like all of you to pause for a moment, you wretched weaklings, and take stock of your miserable existence. (Laughter) 　　Now that was the advice that St. Benedict gave his rather startled followers in the fifth century. It was the advice that I decided to follow myself when I turned 40. Up until that moment, I had been that classic corporate warrior -- I was eating too much, I was drinking too much, I was working too hard and I was neglecting the family. And I decided that I would try and turn my life around. In particular, I decided I would try to address the thorny issue of work-life balance. So I stepped back from the workforce, and I spent a year at home with my wife and four young children. But all I learned about work-life balance from that year was that I found it quite easy to balance work and life when I didnt have any work. (Laughter) Not a very useful skill, especially when the money runs out. 　　So I went back to work, and Ive spent these seven years since struggling with, studying and writing about work-life balance. And I have four observations Id like to share with you today. The first is: if societys to make any progress on this issue, we need an honest debate. But the trouble is so many people talk so much rubbish about work-life balance. All the discussions about flexi-time or dress-down Fridays or paternity leave only serve to mask the core issue, which is that certain job and career choices are fundamentally incompatible with being meaningfully engaged on a day-to-day basis with a young family. Now the first step in solving any problem is acknowledging the reality of the situation youre in. And the reality of the society that were in is there are thousands and thousands of people out there leading lives of quiet, screaming desperation, where they work long, hard hours at jobs they hate to enable them to buy things they dont need to impress people they dont like. (L