长袖善舞——管理者人际关系谋略 （Resourceful management interpersonal relationship strategy ()）.docVIP

长袖善舞——管理者人际关系谋略 (11)（Resourceful management interpersonal relationship strategy (11)） (two) more table under, less desktop . Here under the table and desktop is a metaphor, two each contains three meanings: (1) an occasion. Under the table refers to informal occasions, such as on the dining table, on the road, on the bus, at home, etc.. Desktop refers to formal occasions, such as organizational life meetings, work research meetings, study seminars, etc.. (2) refers to the role. Desk down means non work roles. Such as students, teachers, acquaintances, younger generation, friends Friends, etc.. Desktop refers to the work role, such as the position, level etc.. (3) there are many people. Under the table. Is that two people talk privately, desktop refers to the presence of others or a public occasion. The so-called multi table, less table, that is, subordinates advice to superiors, we should make more use of informal Occasions, less formal occasions; more use of non work role identity, less use of work role identity; as far as possible two When talking in private, do not make public comments. This is not only to solve the problem, but also to unite comrades, closely subordinate and superior level relations is necessary. 1., you can give yourself leeway. As subordinates, comments and criticisms to the boss, who can not guarantee content one hundred percent correct. If you are talking on an informal basis, you are talking as a non - working role, and you talk about it individually, even later on There are many discrepancies, even serious errors, and there is a lot of room for maneuver. It is easy to eliminate the possible adverse effects It does not make oneself passive or embarrassed. On the contrary, if the formal occasion is discussed, it is the role of the work Talk in a public occasion under the talk, once the mistakes and errors, often less leeway, will damage Their own image in peoples minds, the negative impact is difficult to eliminate. 2. leave room for your bo