[工程科技]高效能人士的7个习惯.pdfVIP

7 habits of highly effective people --By Lydia He (Yuting) 开启自己的大门 Open the door on your own 谁也无法说服他人改变。我们每个 人都守着一扇只能从内开启的改变 之门，不论动之以情或说之以理， 我们都不能替别人开门。 --美国作家佛格森 （Marilyn Ferguson) 习惯Habits 习惯是知识，技巧，意愿三者的混合体 A habit is the interaction of knowledge, skill and desire. 知识指点我们 “做什么”及 “为何做” Knowledge is the what to do and why to do 技巧则是 “如何做” Skill is the how to do 意愿表示我们有付诸行动的愿望. Desire is the motivation, the want to do 培养一种习惯，以上三个要素缺一不可！ We have to have all three above to make sth a habit! 7种习惯关系图 The 7 habits paradigm 三个不同的期间 The Maturity Continuum • 依赖期：围绕 “你”这个观念，你照顾我，你为我的成败得失负责； 事情若有差错，我便怪罪于你。－－靠别人来完成自己的愿望。 Dependence: Paradigm of you, you take care of me; you come through for me; you did not come through, I blame you for the results.— Depend on others to achieve wishes. • 独立期：着眼于 “我”的观念，－我可以自立，我为自己负责，我可 以自由选择。－－自己打天下。 Independence: Paradigm of I , I can do it, I am responsible, I am self-reliant, I can choose.--Fight for yourself on your own. • 互赖期：从 “我们”的观念出发，我们可以自主，合作，统合综效， 共创伟大前程。－－群策群力以达成功。 Interdependence is the paradigm of we, we can do it, we can cooperate, we can combine our talents and abilities and create something greater together.—Achieve success by group efforts. 习惯一：积极主动 Habit 1: Be Proactive Our basic nature is to act, and not to be acted upon. As well as enabling us to choose our response to particular circumstances, this empowers us to create circumstances. 习惯一积极主动 Habit 1: Be Proactive • 外界的评价并不能完全代表全部真实的你，人有选择的自 由 External opinions can not stand for yourself completely, we have freedom to choose 1）自我意识－通过自己的努力去控制自己的行为 Self-awareness-Control our responses through our own efforts. 2）想象力－超出现实之外 Imagination-the ability to create our in our minds beyond our present reality. 3）良知－明辨善恶是非 Conscience-a deep inner awareness of right and wrong. 4 ）独立意志－不受外界影响，自行其是 Independent will-the ability to act bas