网课阅读学案(一) 试上.docx

网课阅读学案（一）（试上）学习要求：1.通读文章，结合翻译，了解文章意思，把握文章主题。 2.找出你认为重要的短语，用下划线或是不同颜色标出，并积累到单词本上。 3.搞懂文章中一些句子的成分，并且分析句子结构以及重要知识点。Grief lesson: Everyone is fighting a hard battle；I’m not the only oneWe’ve all heard the quote,“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.”My husband and son died within two years of each other. From my personal experience, I believe that we aren’t careful, grief can become a rather self-involvedprocess in which we can become so focused on our own suffering that we miss the opportunity to connect with , possibly bring comfort to , someone else who may be going through a similar experience.Six months after my husband died, I was sinking in the quicksand of grief, I could not pull myself out of the misery.In that moment, I actually believe that my life was more difficult than anyone else around me. Life handed me a perfectly wrapped lesson that opened my eyes to the fact that through my sufferingI had allowed myself to become blinded by my self-pity.The lesson presented itself in a health crisis. I had complication from a surgical procedure and ended up being hospitalized for four days. I was in a extreme amount of pain during this time. Between the physical pain and the emotional pain of grief, I was an absolute mess.I should also tell you that I am a Registered Nurse. As a nurse, it is hard to be on the receiving end of grief end of medical as the patient.The first three nights that I was in hospital, the same nurse took care of me. She was young, maybe in her mid to late 20s, and she hardly interacted with me at all the first two nights, other than to give me medication as scheduled. She obviously had no idea how much emotional pain Iwas in. How hard is it to ask your patient how she’s feeling？Iwrote her off as a bad nurse who had little empathy, and remained absorbed in my own emotional and physical pain.The third night the young nurse was a little more talkative. She asked me how I was feeling (finally!). Itold her that I was st