Carnegie Art lecture（卡内基艺术讲座）.doc

Carnegie Art lecture About overcome psychological shy in public, Mr. Carnegie’s most experienced, and many of his experiences in the most basic lesson is: “You have to assume that the audience owes you money, you are demanding more than a few days grace; your creditors are air , do not be afraid of them. “ Once, Carnegie Course to participate in the graduation party, at the party, a graduate in front of two hundred people in the face, he said:. “Mr. Carnegie, five years ago, I went to a restaurant you organize demonstrations when I came to the hall door, and stopped into the room as long as I know, participate in class, sooner or later something had to lecture my hand on the door handle stiff, I was afraid to go into; .. Finally, only turned and walked out of the hotel At that time, if I know you can teach people to move easily overcome fear -. kind of audience will limp in the face of fear, I would not miss the loss of five years in vain. “ After listening to his words, Carnegie deep for his deportment and confidence especially attracted to be honest because he was not across a table at a nice chat, but in front of many people make statements which indicated that he had completely overcome the psychological shy in public, he will now be able to help with the skills and confidence to make administrative affairs skills greatly increased. Perhaps, if he had already overcome fear in five or ten years before, he compared The current is now definitely been enjoying more and better success and happiness. Love Emerson said: “The fear of anything better than to defeat the human world.” His statement is quite right because of this, Carnegie believes the elimination of fear and inferiority complex is one of the best way for people to grasp the presentation and negotiation skills. while in the process, Carnegie believes that practice speaking in public places is a natural method, which can not only overcome anxiety, but also helps to build courage and self-confiden