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学着聆听（Learn to listen） How to learn to listen Listening is an important speech activity in human society. Practice mouth must first practice ear, no ear can not speak eloquence. Therefore, if you want to succeed in conversation, you must have a pair of sensitive ears, and be a good listener. 1. is better than to hear Listening is the need to improve interpersonal relationships. A man has two ears and one mouth that he may speak little and listen much. Do not pay attention to, not good at listening, that is, do not pay attention to, not good at communication. Half of the conversation is listening attentively to each others conversation. No matter how good your eloquence is, how wonderful your words are, listen to what others say and see what others are saying. As the saying goes, what we say is better than what we hear.. That is to say, only by listening can we really speak; only by listening can we better understand each other and facilitate effective communication. Especially the conversation and have more true skill and genuine knowledge of people, but also to listen, listen. The so-called listen to Juns words, better than reading ten books, probably is this meaning. So, are we not saying anything, just listening to it? Of course not. If you dont say a word, even if you dont think youre dumb, youll think youre not interested in the conversation. This will make the other party feel embarrassed and disappointed, and will not say any more. To say more or less is better. It depends on the content and needs of the conversation. If your words are useful and you are interested, of course you can say more; if your words do not have any substance or effect, it is better to say nothing. If you are interested and opinions on a certain topic, not off the reel, endless, dont interrupt kibitz, because that will lead them bored, and even destroy the whole atmosphere. There is also a knack for listening. When someone is speaking, some people eyes free, absent-minded, give a person