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对中学生心理辅导的12种方法（12 methods of psychological counseling for middle school students） 12 methods of psychological counseling for middle school students Listening method Listening comprehension refers to the skills that a consultant listens carefully and patiently to visitors, including listening and witnessing. Hearing is listening to the ear, observing the body language of the visitor and listening to the callers voice. In the conversation with the visitor, the consultant mainly listens, not says; between the consultant and the visitor, is not the teacher student relations, but is the friend relations. A counselor should be on an equal footing with his visitors and receive them warmly. To do this, you must listen. When talking to consultants and clients need to maintain a proper distance, the distance is a kind of psychological distance, which should be It differs from man to man. from time to time. When listening to a visitor, the consultant can neither keep an eye on the person nor stay out of sight. In the process of listening, the consultant should have a brief response from time to time to encourage the other person to speak, such as Er, is that so? Wait, said he was paying attention to his speech. When listening to each others speech, the consultants own emotional and body language should also be adapted to each other. If the other person is happy, the counselor will show joy; the other person is sad and the consultant will show his weight. When listening, the Counselors body should lean forward slightly and nod appropriately. In a word, the key to listening is listening attentively. Two. Transference Empathy (Empathy) means to experience the mental world of others, as if in your own mental world, to understand and share the mental workload of the visitor. As a visitor in the class talked about his public humiliation matter said: I was so angry, really want to take the knife to stab him to death, I do not want to live. The counselor can say, at that time, your fe