【英语阅读】女孩子约会注重什么.docVIP

【英语阅读】女孩子约会注重什么 There are a lot of books, magazine articles, and other such writings that will try to tell you what a girl really wants, and what is important to her. The problem with an awful lot of them is that they are based on polls of hundreds or thousands of girls. 　　Why wouldnt you want to ask as many girls as possible? The answer is simple, but not necessarily something everyone thinks about when they read such polls… when you run a large poll, you get a lot of people answering the way they think they are “supposed to”, rather than the way they actually feel. 　　If you want to know the truth, you have to ask people who are comfortable enough with you to be candid. The list below is compiled from conversations with the girls I know （and have known） well enough for them to tell me about things like this. 　　Keep in mind that, as the title says, this is what matters to a girl on the first date （and possibly the second or third）… not what matters long term. The two are definitely different things, although most of the same things still matter, its more a matter of which areas are more important （ie looks are far more important at the beginning than later in your relationship… but they DO still matter, even years later）。 　　What Matters To A Girl On The First Date 　　Looks 　　Most women, when polled, will say looks arent that important. Most women, when speaking to someone they know, admit that they are important. Lets face it… when you are attracted to someone physically, you look for reasons to like them mentally and emotionally. 　　Looks affect everything else on this list… because people subconsciously overlook minor bad things, and emphasize minor good things, when they are dealing with someone whom they find attractive. This holds true whether youre interested in a relationship with them or not… thats why attractive people do better in jobs with a lot of personal interaction （like sales）。 　　Oddly enough, it works the other way, too… after