中美家庭教育对比..doc

The Defferent of Family Education between China and America ?1st, emphasis is laid on family education.? No matter which country you come from, what nationality you belong to all think the family is a persons first school, and the parent is the first teacher. Either China or Western countries, either the ancient times or the modern times, family education is always in the most fundamental position. ? 2nd, family education should be started since childhood, perform the duty promptly.? Family instruction of Yan said that,“ The parents should do the missionary work, when the infant is young. Judging from his facial expression, we know whether he is angry or happy, then give instructions.”[ “Family Instruction of Yan” ,? Zhitui Yan,? Southern and Northern Dynasties] Because “it’s easy to concentrate a child’s attention. After he grows up, his attention is easily dispersed, so a child must be caught early.” Dewey also thought the family education should be executed early. ? 3rd, parents unsuilable role division in education brings about some bad results.? Either in China or in the West mother is almost described in many cultures as the main fosterer, and then father plays only a part. The father is the main undertaker who teaches the child to know the rationality education. Mother is responsible for childs food and drink in daily life, the material guarantee, the emotional satisfaction and so on, is also the main undertaker of child’s emotional cultivation. Its result is that the child holds his father in awe and veneration and causes the poor relation between child and father, and thus affects childs perfect development. ? 5th, attach importance to teaching by personal example as well as verbal instruction.? The parents are childs models, usually a simple movement is more effective than the inculcation of ten thousand instructions.? However, the traditional family education in China, on account of the respective differences in more aspects is different fro