选择恐惧症预案.ppt

It seems there is always something to be entangled with. 似乎世界上永远有让人纠结下去的理由。 We began to face kinds of nerve-wracking choices since we were children.我们从小就面临各种让人纠结的选择。 Do you love dad or mum? A scientist like Newton? An artist like ?Da Vinci? A dancer like ?someone? The first tough choice. Then the choices about our future… study? TRAVEL? Willfulness? 任性？ Responsibility? 责任？ Actually, in the “bitter” school-days, we were constantly faced with choices like this… Finally , there is no need to worry about school exam , here comes choices about daily life… THE LOVE IS COMING. SO IS THE SUFFERING CHOICE… 你懂的…… At last, we realized that the fear of decision making is a kind of disease . 恐惧选择，是一种病。 一种病 For people who is always troubled by decision making , there are several reasons can explain : 1. People whose parents are uncertain and unsteady are more likely to be anxious and irresolute. 如果一个人的父母犹疑不定或反复无常，在这种环境下长大的孩子很可能在未来的感情生活中也会产生焦虑和不确定。 2.The perfectionist tends to be entangled with the details , because it seems he can hardly achieve the ideal state. 完美主义倾向的人也比较容易在具体的事情上纠结，因为总是不能达到自己心目中最理想的状态。 3.There is also someone escaping choices because he dares not undertake the consequence of his choice.一些人则是因为害怕承担自己选择的后果，逃避抉择。 No matter how hard it is, we have to make the decision at the last moment. The suffering is always going to pass, so, there is no need to be entangled. Over thinking 多虑症 Wishful thinking 一厢情愿症 Social phobia 社交恐惧症 It is no wonder that these “modern disease” has relationship with social development. As for the “disease” like procrastination , they maybe have more relationship with one’s personality and experience . We should take appropriate measures to solve them.以上这些“现代病”，肯定和时代发展有关。至于拖延症等其实更多和个人性格以及境遇有关。我们需要针对性地进行引导和化解。 Thank you !